Death, divorce, and serious illness are difficult. Sometimes we just don’t know how to talk about it with the people experiencing the grief and pain. We don’t want to make it worse by drawing unwanted attention to their pain, but we also don’t want to be callous. Social support is healing. Here are some tips […]

The U.S. Supreme Court officially reversed Roe v. Wade on June 24, 2022, declaring that the constitutional right to abortion, upheld for a half-century, no longer exists. Abortion will not be available in large swaths of the country. The court decision means that young women today will have fewer rights than their mothers and grandmothers. […]

I was recently quite ill for four days. I had severe fatigue, loss of appetite, and shooting pain in my head. Two at-home Covid tests were negative and a third Covid test administered by the ER was negative. After the ER visit ruled out Covid but did not identify the cause of my illness, my […]

I saw a Facebook post that set me back. “A university student was trying to research ways to help turtles cross roads safely, so he placed a fake turtle in a road to observe driver behavior. Disturbingly, he found that six percent of people deliberately went out of their way to hit the turtle.” The […]

You can’t watch the news without seeing the devastating effects of war on the people of Ukraine. My heart breaks for the people who are killed or displaced. I’m sickened over the fate of all people in all wars, but the Russia-Ukraine conflict seems more widely televised and reported than others that I’ve been exposed […]

Perhaps you’ve read about Akihiko Kondo, a Japanese man, who “married” a fictional character. By all accounts, he is an ordinary man who is pleasant and easy to talk to. He has friends and a steady job and wears a suit and tie to work. He is attending college and studying minority rights in law […]

As a psychotherapist, I am often asked, “How can you listen to people’s problems all day?” In truth, it is a privilege and pleasure to meet with clients. What I find challenging is what occurs between sessions. Administrative tasks can be overwhelming. Dealing with insurance companies for the reimbursement of my services is the bane […]

Few people have not followed the Academy Awards frenzy after Will Smith slapped Chris Rock for an insensitive joke directed at his wife, Jada Pinkett Smith. Like others, I reacted with confusion (did that just happen?), then astonishment (that really happened!), followed by interest (where did that come from?). What would make Will react with […]